can you have feelings for things without feelings?
I'm pretty sure you can. People can fall in love with robots/electronics just as easy as people. If you think about it, people fall in love with people that they don't even know. I was "in love" once. But, I was in love with the guy I wanted him to be, not who he was. So, I'm pretty sure people can fall in love with robots. Usually as long as something/someone gives you affection and makes you feel special you fall in love with it/them. Also, people love people who don't love them back just like loving a robot would be like. I'm not sure if this blog makes any sense, but the gist is you cant judge other peoples feelings. So if they say they're in love..how can you say they aren't?
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I know several people who regularly participate in stage combat shows. Those who have their own, personal weapons often times give names to them and ALWAYS guard them ferociously. They consider their weapon an extension of themself; a friend who has saved their life many a time.
Developing feelings in your readers/viewers/players for things in your story that don't actually feel (or heck, may not actually even exist) sounds like an excellent way to ramp up the interactivity.
As to that specific someone, it is hard to express your emotions because you know that they are real, that you will get a genuine response to your feelings. With objects it is different because you know that materials do not actually respond!